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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • My SO struggles with this too. I just get by with only one or two people I’d call friends and that works for me. I don’t need a lot.

    But my SO struggles with friends in much the same way. They are always the one to reach out to the friends and ask to schedule things and plan in advance but it’s never the friends reaching out to do the same. I consider those not real friends - they’re friends out of convenience because it gives them something to do sometimes instead of actually caring.

    So maybe keep track of things like this and see if your friends are actually friends and they care about you or because they get bored and occasionally want things to do.

    It seems to me to be pretty normal as you age to distance yourself from others. Especially if you’re in a relationship and/or have a career or job you’re passionate about which it appears you care a lot for your field. Those two things alone will eat up the majority of your time. Throw in friends with that who also may have relationships and jobs etc that eat up all their time too. So naturally it’s difficult to plan things and people fall apart. Totally normal.



  • I’m so bad at getting exposure right! lol playing with the exposure slider in Lightroom makes it look a lot better especially the sky that I was thinking felt too dark. It may have made the building a bit too bright but that’s easy to tone down. Maybe I need to start paying more attention to the histogram.

    I’ll take a look at how a red filter would change it. It kinda hurts my brain trying to think of how it would affect the image since it’s limited to black and white. I know some of the people I watch on YouTube use them sometimes - I’m sure I can find a how-to video.

    Thanks so much for your input! I really appreciate it.















  • Looking at it with my iPhone 14 Pro on full brightness it’s just a little too dark in my opinion. If I save the photo and view it it looks a little better but still a touch dark. It might would be bright enough if there was more of a glow coming through the windows.

    I bet it would look absolutely sick printed though.

    I struggle the same way with dark shots. If it’s something intended to post or share with people, then I’ll look at it at 50% brightness on whatever screen I’m using and brighten it until it’s how I want it to look. I think that takes care of most viewing situations in which people would see the photo.

    However, If it’s something just for me I’ll make it as dark as it needs to be!