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  • Just remember the KISS principal: Keep It Simple, Stupid

    Keep the NAS as a NAS, and I would honestly trim down everything else into a clustered hypervisor setup (like Proxmox) with dedicated VMs to run each stack. That way if you need to take a machine down for whatever reason, you can migrate its VMs/containers to another machine, with minimal downtime, so you can do whatever it is you need to do with said machine.

    Full disclosure: this is what I do. I was in your shoes before.






  • I’ll give you one more chance to quit moving the goalposts.

    In most of these situations, the abuser is putting on a face. This happened to me, so I speak from experience. I married a wonderful woman, and over time she became more controlling, snappier, wanted me to spend less and less time with my parents/siblings/friends until any mention of them made her angry, etc, etc… To the point that I was isolated completely with no support system when the violence started.

    Point is, the person that becomes the abuser rarely shows their true colors until the victim is already heavily invested, especially when they’re “trapped” with kids or other things.


  • Fear is an extremely powerful motivator. I’m going to assume you haven’t had to deal with that personally before, so I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt, but fear in these situations can absolutely cause people to defend their abusers, else they get beaten and/or raped again for not “taking his side”. My wife was in that situation in her last marriage; if he wanted sex, she could either just go with it so she didn’t get beaten, or she could say “no”, at which point he would get angry and rape her anyway.

    Being isolated with zero support system and then being shamed (like you’re doing) for just trying to survive is what keeps those women in those situations.











  • lka1988@sh.itjust.workstoMemes@lemmy.mlDammit OneDrive
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    Sounds like something you should bring up with IT.

    Onedrive on a personal PC is one thing, but Onedrive on a work machine is a different product and is up to the company’s discretion. If it’s not working the way you expect, you reach out to the IT department so they can explain it to you.

    Something to keep in mind though: at the end of the day, none of the work stuff is yours. You have no control over it and never will. Store your files the way the company wants you to store them, because if it gets deleted or corrupted or whatever, it’s not your problem. I’m stuck with Windows 11 and Onedrive on my work laptop, but I don’t give a shit because it’s not mine.


  • lka1988@sh.itjust.workstoMemes@lemmy.mlDammit OneDrive
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    I switched my personal laptop to LMDE. It has a Windows 10 LTSC VM for some specialty applications that just will not run under Linux, but otherwise I make it work. My gaming PC is the only computer left in my house that runs Windows, and it’ll be getting switched to LMDE soon.