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Japan-based backend software dev.

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Cake day: August 14th, 2024

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  • I’ve gone through all the stages of grief and I don’t live there. I honestly don’t know why it does or even should bother me. I guess there is some part of me that hates injustice and has some nostalgia for an America, real or always imagined, that was trying to do its best for the free world (even though that was, in many cases, found to be objectively not true later).

    If anything, it seems like they may finally get rid of some of the stuff that makes it difficult to impossible for US people living overseas to use certain retirement vehicles without committing tax fraud (PFICs; PFICs everywhere and I can’t put income into my US tax-advantaged vehicles due to rules on that side), but potentially doing one thing that helps me does not do anything to assuage my revulsion and rage at the current situation.















  • I had a gf when we were both in our 20s. She had huge body image issues when she was a teenager. She always worried about ther looks, but she was beautiful to me and many, many others. At like 24, she couldn’t drink or eat anything too soon before going to bed. Liquids we’re the most dangerous but, if she lie down, it would come back up. The acid from vomiting after every meal permanently caused her health issues.

    I would recommend therapy for one thing, but also not caring so much about what others think. And, believe me as I also struggle with a number of things, that’s so much easier than it sounds. You should find and do things just for you and not anyone else. That’s not to say you should be completely selfish or something, but you need to realize that you are important and respect yourself. Again, easier said than done and I even struggle with this as a dude in his 40s sometimes.

    Nothing changes for long overnight regarding mental health. It will be a battle with ups and downs, but I think it’s a battle worth fighting. Please take care of and respect yourself!



  • Japan was largely allergic to price increases, especially as wages remained largely stagnant. Corona began to see some things slide and Russia also had an impact that, coupled with a yen weakening compared to the dollar, basically opened the floodgates on price increases. It’s in the news basically every week now. Rice is double what it was a few years ago.