Fuck it we ball

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • While it seems logical at first, when you consider it seriously it quickly falls apart.

    Even not considering such questions as “How do you enforce it?” (What are you going to do? Take the kid from them? That would quickly turn into a giant mess) or “How effective in actuality it is going to be?” (What stopping someone malicious to ace the exam and then abuse their kid without legal repercussions?) much simpler reason is that it would even further hinder the already falling birth rates. And most of the goverments and people don’t want that.








  • Like, I kinda just hate Cantonese. I mean, almost every interaction in Cantonese is with an abusive person.

    I mean, yeah, I think it’s completely valid in your case. I think people are very good at linking together the sound of something and the atmosphere it is being heard in. This is a very mild example, but I heard many many times the story of " I heard the music that used to be my alarm, and jolted in pain for a moment". So even in such simple cases the effect is strong, and you just had to go through terrible things, all accompanied with the same type of sounds. So yeah, it isn’t weird or bad, it’s just your associations with the awful things that you needeed to go through.

    I hope that one day you be able to grow much more warming associations with these sounds, or even just letting them go entirely and embracing another language as the powerful language of love.












  • Please, please, don’t do that. I understand that life can be rough sometimes, and there are moments in it when you don’t have the time to “feel it out” and you need to just survive, now.

    But… Just pushing your negative feelings deeper down and “faking a smile” is a really bad way to cope and can lead to serious issues with mental wellbeing. So please, remember that all feelings are valid, and are there for a reason. Let yourself have a mental space to feel the emotions fully, even if they are not positive. Coprehend and analyze them, find the situation that is causing them and go from there, doing things that can make it better.

    And remember, nothing is in vain, and everything going to be fine. Have a good day :)