• pyre@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    It’s your employer who doesn’t treat you like humans. Stop blaming the customers for it.

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        11 months ago

        Nope. The customers are dealing with the company. How the company treats employees is between the employer and the employee.

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      11 months ago

      This sentiment is like denying a server a tip because you have a problem with the restaurant chain, even though you’re eating there anyway. Or, like flipping off the Amazon delivery driver because you hate Jeff Bezos.

      If you think Door Dash sucks as a company, (which I do by the way) just don’t use it! But don’t screw over the delivery driver if you do decide to use it, that is wack as fuck.

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          11 months ago

          I do not work for, or rely on tips. I’m just pointing this out because it is the morally correct thing to do.

          If you don’t like people relying on tips, pick up your own food?

          Jesus this thread is chock full of people who have never worked in the service industry. Astonishing entitlement

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      Their employer is treating them like a tipped employee, which is so embedded into society’s fabric that we have a separate tax code for it.

      You not liking that is not any different from you liking a given law. You’re free to not participate, but expect there to be consequences, and one of those is for people to assume you’re intentionally being an asshole, not protesting a perceived injustice.

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        11 months ago

        I’m in Canada where the minimum wage is the same for all employees, regardless of tips or not (with one small exception in Quebec, where it’s $10.80 instead of $13.50).

        I just looked up the US law and it seems so circular. There’s a smaller minimum for those considered ‘tipped employees’, but the definition of ‘tipped employee’ is one who makes at least $30/month in tips in general.

        So you could say it’s incumbent on customers to pity these employees and top up their salaries, but it seems just as reasonable to stop tipping them so they no longer fit that definition and they get the actual minimum wage.

        In other words, they only get a smaller minimum wage because they prefer being tipped employees. If they didn’t, they would just refuse the tips.

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          11 months ago

          Welcome to unbridled capitalism!!! It is a complete shit show.

          Tipping has been a evil system from the first tip ever. It’s portrayed as a way to “appreciate good service” but in reality, it is about enforcing the power dynamic of rich over poor, and belittling those below you.

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          11 months ago

          Servers make vastly more than min wage. I generally had $0 paychecks because taxes were higher than my hourly

          It’s not about pity. It’s a socially accepted standard of certain service roles. Servers are generally against removing tipping because they make more by being tipped than they would hourly.

          For every person that tips small, someone will inevitably tip over the expected value, generally more often than not. A flat 18% upcharge on food to pay for a server is generally robbing the server.

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            11 months ago

            I feel like everything you said supports my point. You’re not in favour of tipping because it’s the morally right thing to do, or because you altruistically support hard workers. You’re in favour of it because you personally make a shit ton more money.

            And it completely avoids my point that if you think you deserve that money (which I agree you do) then you should take it up with your employer instead of shaking down customers through guilt.

            certain service roles

            This is really the heart of it. I’m sorry but no role is more deserving of tips than another. Everyone deserves a living wage paid by their employer. If you truly believed in rewarding good service with good pay, you would want to abolish the tipping system and advocate for all workers being paid a living wage regardless of tips. You can’t just support the industry that you personally work in and say you care about fair pay.

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              You’re not in favour of tipping because it’s the morally right thing to do, or because you altruistically support hard workers. You’re in favour of it because you personally make a shit ton more money.

              I’m in favor of it because it helps everyone involved. There is no one that tipping is bad for.

              This is really the heart of it. I’m sorry but no role is more deserving of tips than another. Everyone deserves a living wage paid by their employer.

              All wages are paid by consumers. If the price of going to a restaurant increases by 25% and servers aren’t tipped, I assure you that every person involved is having a worse experience

              People will go to restaurants less, more restaurants will fail, fewer people will work as servers, and they’ll work longer hours (similar to BOH). You can see this played out in countries that do not tip - and also with jobs like catering that generally do not focus on topping for service.

              What won’t happen is the restaurant owners themselves won’t be paying servers more from their own pocket. This is also observable anywhere tipping isn’t a thing

              Idk what meme or podcast or whatever convinced people that tipping culture is bad, but absolutely none of the arguments make any sense. If they did, I could be persuaded, but most points are just completely ignorant of the reality of working in a restaurant and the rest seem like they’re specifically designed to manipulate you.

              It’s on employers to pay their employees a fair wage

              This one being the most obviously manipulative