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Cake day: August 4th, 2023

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  • In China you simply keep your birth name forever, and children always follow the paternal side. That’s why having a male heir is important there, because a woman will only bear offspring for her spouse’s family.

    As to why the family bonds are so strong, it’s part cultural (your elders are always right and must not be criticised, and you must take care of your blood above anything else), part societal - parents work too much (60-100h weekly), so children are generally raised by their grandparents, which strengthens the bond across generations. And because the pension system is totally insufficient, grandparents will at some point typically move in with their kids, so people are used to live in a multi generational household.

    By the way, China is just one example, there are even Western countries where it’s not possible to change the names, such as Luxembourg.











  • That keeps getting cited in western media, but it’s really not the case. The obsession with bloodlines is true; however it is illegal here (I live in China, my wife is Chinese) to reveal the gender prior to birth; and punished severely. It’s still possible to find a doctor and bribe them, however the risk is so high that not many are able to pay up. I’ve heard numbers of up to 30k USD (!) going around (and that’s in today’s money), which is easily 2-3x the annual salary of a local worker.

    So while the top ~10% or something could have afforded it, it was in fact much easier to just have a second kid and just hide it with some relatives in a village who’d pretend it was theirs. All the good it did to enforce the one child policy was to have a ton of unaccounted offspring running around in the countryside.

    Current statistics show that 48.99% of Chinese are female vs. 51.01% male, while the global statistic is 50.49% male vs. 49.51% female. (That’s the global figure including China, so it’s a bit distorted, but not by a huge margin).

    TL;DR: While there are a bit fewer women in China than the global average, it’s not really a relevant concern.