• Fecundpossum@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      Yeah, at no point in my dating life did I ever continue seeking relations past week three. If we’re not fucking by week three, we’re just not fucking.

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          2 hours ago

          Nope. Never wanted to waste my time to find out someone was terrible at intimacy. Wife and I slept with each other on our third date, and all these years later still can’t keep our hands off each other.

          You do you, but that puritanical shit was always a red flag for me.

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            31 minutes ago

            Also I never understood “take it slow”. What’s slow? 90 days? A year? 2 years? A decade?

            Then there’s the “you should be single for a bit”. Okay I’ve been single for 5 months, but then “no I’ve been single for two years”. You mean I’m not supposed to have intimacy for some arbitrary amount of time? I’m supposed to ignore any advance by anyone no matter how great they may be? I’ve missed so many good eggs that way.